wow. it’s literally people like you and messages like these i hoped to get that were the reason i shared my story. knowing that i can help even one person avoid falling down the dangerous, miserable, life damaging rabbit hole that i did makes it easier to cope with my own daily struggles. thank you so much for taking the time to read my story and for taking it seriously and to heart. i know that it’s not easy to deal with feelings of negative self image, but know that there are better, easier, safer, and more effective ways to change the things about your body that you don’t like. but also know that everyone is born as who they are, and will live the rest of their lives that way, as themselves. might as well make peace with the you that you’ve been born with, you’ll never be anyone different. if you ever need anyone to talk to, i’m here <3
"fuck it" or (this is a quote, not exactly advice) you’d stop worrying so much about what others think of you, if you realized how seldom they do, or never regret anything because at the time it was exactly what you wanted, or if you spend your life with one foot in the past and one foot in the future, you’re in the perfect position to shit on the present
literally we spend so much fucking time worrying about shit that isn’t important. just live your life. do you. and don’t give even a half a flying fuck what anybody else says or thinks. as long as you’re happy and doing what you want. i don’t bother with having regrets or thinking about how i couldn’t done things differently, because no one can go back, what’s done is done. move on and do things better next time. but don’t have regrets because everything that has ever happened to you, or that you’ve ever been through made you the person that you’ve become.